Welcome.
A gentle note: These blog pieces are personal. They are written from a place of healing and integration, not from the rawness of the moment. I share them with care, trusting they will meet you where you are.
Four Seasons of Solitude
Twenty years ago, one of my mentors, Father Paul—a wise, gentle priest from a Catholic community in northern Ontario—shared something with me that I never forgot.
“You should date someone through all four seasons—an entire year—before deciding to commit your life to them.”
A Divorce Story
This morning, Arend and I walked into City Hall to file for divorce. What I felt wasn’t grief. It was freedom.
I know that may sound confusing…